There She Goes

The day Jon and I pulled out of the Springs in our moving van was the day Katie Decker departed out of Denver, thanks to British Airlines, to make her way to Spain. Luckily I caught her just in time before she left to chat about her new adventure (and to ball my eyes out while saying goodbye to my big sister). 


K : Okay, okay, here we are. Cheers to the New Year!

A : Yes, Cheers! Alright Katie, so where are you going?

K : I'm going to SPAIN! To Europa! Haha. I am specifically going to Mijas, Spain. It is on the southern coast, Costa Del Sol. I'm right on the Mediterranean Sea, and it's this quaint little village on a mountainside ten minutes from the beach! It's really beautiful. 

A : GAH I'm so jealous...

K : It's actually what they like to call "the hidden gem" of España.

A : So why are you going?

K : I'm going... to get uncomfortable. And to experience culture outside of what I'm comfortable and familiar with. I really hope, through this program that I'm doing, to develop more of a vision and idea for what I am called for after. 

A : What do you mean by "called for"?

K : Called 'to' after. So, kind of my purpose. I have an idea of what I like to do, what I'm good at, what makes me come alive, but I really want to figure out how I can take all of that and impact people and the world for Jesus. I'm very strategic in how I live my life, and so I like to maximize what I do. I have a limited amount of time and skill and energy, and I really want to use that the best I can, you know?

A : And what about traveling is going to help you find that sense of purpose do you think?

K : Well, I think the whole thing about traveling is that it takes you into a new environment, so that you have to let go of control and comfortability and everything that you knew, and kind of adapt and respond in ways that really stretch you and challenge you. It opens up your eyes a little bit wider. I really like that about travel. And everyone always says that it gives you "world perspective". Thats a cliche, but I really think that it is really profound because you get so many new and different perspectives that you probably may not have thought of is you stayed living your own life with no one else to influence you. I like to have people influence and push me and sharpen me. 

A : Yeah, definitely. It seems like there is a great sense of adventure in you.

K : Yes, I'm so excited for adventure! 

For her interview, Katie creatively put together a number of "travel attire" ensembles for me to photograph. These are some of her favorite outfits to wear on her world-wide adventures.

The Tourist

A : So When did you first feel the flame of adventure and travel in your life?

K : It's funny because I feel like I've always felt this way. Even when I was a little girl, I was never afraid to try things and to go outside by myself, giving my mom a heart attack running around all by myself. Even as a kid in my own imaginative world I would always want to go somewhere new, I never wanted to stay in one spot. I really think also our parents put that in us too. I mean my first trip overseas was when I was, what, 11 months old? And we went to South America and lived in a tent for a couple weeks? I mean it was crazy. We just always grew up learning how to interact with different cultures and traveling and know how to get around and such, so that was fun.   

A : Oh yeah for sure. Besides that one time when you were 11 months, what other places have you been?

K : Well since our dad grew up in South America, we would always try to go down every couple years, so I've been down there to Bolivia and Brazil with the family. I did an Asia trip with my dad to China, Singapore and Thailand. I've been to parts of Europe before like Germany, England, Wales, the UK. Oh and I've been to the Middle East, to Turkey and Israel. 

A : Which place was your favorite, and which was most memorable?

K : Hmm... I think my favorite was the UK, because it's kind of what I've always imagined Ireland to be like and it's my dream to go there. I also really love the people, I love the quiet lives they live, the close communities they have. It's gorgeous too. Even the pace, it's slower. they have tea time. And the CASTLES! Oh my gosh. 

A : I know, that was fun to see together!

K : Yeah , right! And it's definitely all about who you're with. I think my most memorable trip was to the Middle East, because Jesus has never been as real to me as He was on that trip. Seeing the places He literally walked on this earth, and imagining how He lived His life. I mean, He was a real man! It makes Him feel really close and more real. We read these Bible stories and we think it's some fantastical land somewhere else, but going to the actual places and reading through the stories while sitting where they happened... it's just mind blowing. It gives your faith more deeper roots, and a harder ground to stand on. It was amazing.

Cafe Olé

A : It sure seems like it! Katie, why do you want to see the world? I mean I know you kind of answered this one, but... humor me.

K : Haha, well it's kind of like how I approach what God has for me. In the Bible it says to desire spiritual gifts, and to want all of them. I want all of the world that He has to give to me too! Memories, experiences, people that you might meet. I have this theory that since we are all made in the image of God, and yet all unique, not one is  the same as the other. I believe that each person you encounter has a different piece of God to show you, to reflect, to embody. And I want to encounter all of that! 

A : Dang, that's a great answer! Ha. So then, what are your travel goals? 

K : Oh geez, that's a big question! I guess I want to take advantage of every day. I not care about sleeping as much, or rest, but to really push myself. I'm kind of an introvert, I reeaally like sleep, haha. But I want to give up those things to make the most of where I'm at. And even this program I'm doing I think is gonna test my faith and require a lot of vulnerability, and I wanna give that my all. I want to learn and be teachable, and I hope to come out of this program with new friends and connections, memories, some sweet pictures haha. Practically speaking, I want to come out of this with more of an idea of who "Katie" is meant to be in this world. 

A : Very good, very good. Would you ever date anyone you met overseas on any of your travels?

K : Haha! you can't ask that question! Ha. We will see. that's not part of the plan, but we will see.

A : Would you ever marry anyone you met overseas? And/or move to their hometown?

K : That question isn't even on your list is it! But I mean, yeah. Haha yes. If that's the person that I say I Do to then yes. I would adapt to their culture and live with them there. 

A : On a less uncomfortable note, what is your ideal trip?

K : Definitely getting a group of people together that I really love, that I know will adventure with me. Not too big though, not over 10 people, that gets a little crazy. Maybe 5-6 people. Going somewhere new that none of us has been to before, so that it's all a surprise. 

A : Warm or cold?

K : Warm, obviously! With some type of history, or architecture or beach haha. Or food! But doing it like the locals do it, not like a typical american tourist you know. You gotta get the good spots, the hole-in-the-walls, the hidden gems. And I think to really experience a place you have to be there longer than 2 weeks. So that's the minimum time.

Dancing In The Moonlight

A : Where would you like to go most?

K : Ireland! 

A : Oh, right, or course haha. Why?

K : I don't know, I've never been there but I feel like I'm in love with it already. 

A : Yeah, this has been a dream of yours for so long I feel like.

K : Yeah, for like my whole life! For some reason I've always been so fascinated with it. I've done a bunch of research, like a nerd...

A : Nerds are the best kinds of people!

K : Yeah! haha. I just love their history. I feel like that country symbolizes overcoming to me. They've had such a crazy story of famine and division and plague, terrible things happened to them. But still to this day the people of Ireland have such patriotism and love for their country and who they are and their heritage. I mean, come on, let's not forget about the accent! haha I love it. Just beautiful country, I love green and water. All the good stuff.

A : Mmmm yes so good. How does culture affect you?

K : For me, it gets me excited. It's like eating a food you've never had before. Where yeah, you could have been ok with all the yummy stuff you've been eating your whole life so far, but now there's another taste you've never had before, a new experience!

A : Yeah totally! It's like you've been eating olive oil this whole time, and then you try truffle oil and you're life, my life is changed.

K : Exactly. I mean sometimes it scares me too haha. I got culture shock really bad one time when I was in Hong Kong. It was bad. I was like in my room for days, and so tired. I think it was just a lot to take in at once. It's so different where you can't accept or adapt to it, and it becomes too overwhelming for you. But usually I love it.  

A : How does the places you've been affect you life now?

K : I think a lot of them has made me appreciate what I already have. I mean, in America we live in wealth. We are really rich here. It makes me feel really blessed, and makes me want to not take for granted what I do have. Then I also think it helps me realize I can do things differently too. Its also given me deeper compassion. It helps me understand people who are different from me, and realizing that it's a good thing to be different. We can sharpen each other and learn from each other. 

Easy, Breezy, Beautiful...

A: What is one item that you can't travel without?

K :  An over-the-shoulder purse. Because I don't like carrying a backpack around, they always hurt my shoulders. I also like to be a bit stylish too! So with an over-the-shoulder bag, it hangs right above my hip so I can always see it and its harder to steal. It also is a cute accessory that you can wear and doesn't get in the way when you sit down. And, it forces you to only bring essentials! So you carry lighter. 

A : Where is home?

K : You know, right now, I don't know. That's kind of up in the air currently.

A : You've just come from Chicago, yes? Temporarily living there with Julia, our cousin.

K : Right. 

A : And before that you were here, in Colorado Springs. So when you come back from Spain, where are you going to be? 

K : Yeah, I don't know yet. I guess that's part of what I'm going to figure out.

A : Ooh, exciting! What is your favorite part about yourself?

K : Just one thing? Haha. Well I like that I always want to grow, that I have a willing heart. I like that about myself because I feel like that is what I value in other people. I feel like that means that I can always be growing and can be confronted if I need to be but I can also be ok with where I'm at at the same time.

Taxi!

A : What is a cool cultural ritual that you have observed from your travels that you really like?

K : I have to think about this one. Okay, I haven't experienced this yet, but I really like what I've heard about Spanish Tapas. They're kind of like smaller hors d'oeuvres plates for a meal. But the whole point of it is that you take longer to eat your meal, which is better for your digestive system and it creates more room for conversation. So your taking smaller bites and talking more. The meals they say go on for hours sometimes, and I'm really excited to experience that.

A : What is your favorite means of transportation?

K : I actually really like subway trains! The Tube in London... its so fun! I like going fast and I like figuring my way around on the different trains, it's fun.

A : What is your favorite international job? If you could have a job anywhere, what would it be?

K : I think it would be sweet to plan events all around the world. So, it wouldn't have to be based overseas. But I'd just love to do weddings, parties, conventions, any kind of event all over the place.

A : So cool! So, this concludes our interview. Do you have any last words of wisdom for the young traveler?

K : I think just do it! If you have even the smallest desire to go, do it now and do it quick while you can. You won't regret it. And journal while you travel! So you can have an account of all the little and big things that happen to you along the way. Oh wait! Also, start being an adventurer wherever you are today. There's so much to see and experience all around you.

Finding Home

Since I moved out of my parents house in 2010, I have lived in a different location every single year. It has been quite the adventure, but I have wondered to myself if there is a place in my life that I could really consider calling home. It's hard to feel that way when you're always changing where you live. since Jon and I have been married, we have lived now in 4 different spaces within about a year and a half. CRAZY. So here I sit, thinking of where to call home, in a new city at a new coffee shop with an old longing. Jon and I consider ourselves restless souls, always loving a new adventure and a change in pace or location. It somehow fills us with energy and purpose to be travelers and chasers of unchartered roads. I know, I know. I'm writing this post complaining about the adventure I seem to keep bumping into. It's just that there is still a place in my heart that yearns for a space to call home. In some ways however, I can't help feeling a sense of "home" in each place we have lived. I want to pay tribute to the most recent places we have lived, as a form of goodbye. In each place there has dwelled a beautiful journey. In each space enclosed by manmade walls there were memories and smells and feelings and moments that I want to remember, that made up our first year or two of adventuring together. In my search for a home, I take time to remember the old ones I have enjoyed, and the times I won't forget as I move on.


The Lady's Choice

Here is the living room I shared with Bri Giles. We lived in this apartment together for just under a year. This was my favorite room, it had magnificent natural light and carried memories of long nights with friends and New Girl during the fall with hot spiced cider all wrapped in blankets. Bri and I were so excited to pick out furniture and that rug (Ikea, of course) the first week when we moved in. We made a spreadsheet of who gets what after we moved out, and spent way too much of our single-ladies money. I remember talking on the porch many summer nights, sneaking into the hot tub during winter, and breakfast for dinner all the time. We decorated for christmas together and got ready for work in our nice and mostly clean bathroom. I loved those days, it is so fun to live with your dear friends for the short seasons in life that present itself like this one.

Sister Hood

To save money for the wedding, I moved into some friends of mine's basement and lived there with my sister Katie for about 3 months. Katie just so happened to be wedding-planner certified, so it was extremely nice to be living with her during those short and busy months of getting things ready for the big day. We spent lots of time sitting on the floor, drinking wine and making wedding decorations, planning color schemes and going over venue details. We also spent some time fighting over the bathroom and stealing each other's clothes, as all good sisters do. I loved those months with her though. I'll always love living with my sisters for however long it may be, and however many cat fights we have, because they will always be my best friends. 

Our First Space

This was the first little space Jon and I shared as a married couple! It was pure bliss to enjoy endless sleepovers, cooking dinner together, 1-on-1 game nights and movies in the small space of 710sq. feet. It was just big enough to house our growing love for each other for the time being. the picture of the balloons on the table was of my birthday, when Jon surprised me with a little pile of gifts, cupcakes and balloons when we were really low on money. It was such a sweet memory to me, seeing how sacrificial and thoughtful his love for me was. Though it was a cozy beginning, we quickly realized due to both of us having freelance jobs, that we definitely needed more space. I grew weary of having our living room being inhabited by recording gear, wires and cables running all over the place and everything else Jon needed to continue building his music business. So we decided to find a home to invest in our careers and also to not kill each other. Our next house was our favorite, but the story gets more interesting. 

The House On Fontanero

Located Downtown Colorado Springs, this house was our first love. It had so much character and charm. Wood floors, quaint fireplace, sunroom in the back, open kitchen with granite counters, and those WINDOWS! we were drooling. We also adopted our first fluffy puppy named Remington (Remi for short) in this house. We'd take him for a walk every night around the neighborhood and he loved sleeping in our bed when he was a good boy. We'd listen to records and open all the windows when it was hot in the summer. It was a wonderful 6 months... until the people who owned the place decided they wanted to move back in. I don't blame them, but that didn't mean I had to like their decision... On to the next house!

Fish Hawk Point

So, this move was our third one in a year. For a newly married couple, this was a lot of change, but this house was such a blessing in a crazy time. It was beautiful and clean, with two stories and a garage (our first one). So much room for activities! This photo is of my favorite loft room, where my creativity began to blossom. I made way too many paper cranes in there and splattered multiple colors of paint on the wall (thank God for touch-up paint). I started this blog sitting at that desk Jon built for me, and that was a big step forward in my creativity. I felt like I could do anything in there... and just like that we encountered more transition. But I think I'll save that story for another time.

So. Where is home? I'm still not quite sure locationally. It's definitely something we're learning to build. We now live in another house as of 5 days ago, in another town I'm unfamiliar with. How long does it take to establish "home"?  Is this the life God made for us? to be mobile? To move around, always fighting to keep it all together, carefully remembering and executing many spinning details and schedules... I will be honest, I am not sure. Jon and I both believe in the Sovereignty of God, and that no matter where we are He will always provide for us. We know we are under His will, and that no scheme of the enemy can take that away from us. And above all, I know God. Is. So good. So in times of uncertainty, I have learned that there is definitely one place that I can ALWAYS call home. It is found in the consistent and steady presence of our Father. He is always with me, in every house, apartment, city or state. I'll tell you what, I've never felt the homeliness of God more than through the past year and a half. I have finally found where my soul can rest, where I can reside and not feel confused or alone or unsafe. I can't begin to explain what happens when we invite Jesus into our situations, into the chaos and craziness of all the change that seems to be following us. He has made his Presence my home. This story that He's writing of our lives is most definitely an adventure, but adventure can only come if something falters or goes wrong from the original plan. This can cause confusion, fear, loneliness, a sense of direction lost. But if we are to enjoy and fully step into the adventure, we must have faith. If we are to have strong faith, we must trust and KNOW our Father who is going to lead us through the journey with peace and joy. I have been finding that no matter where I am, because He is with me, I will always know I am home in Him. 

Romping (Romantic-Camping)

Romping is my way of defining the BEST way to camp: with your hunnie!! It's the ooey-gooey mushy-gushy form of getting outside the city and rolling around in some dirt (if you know what I mean ;)) for a few days. Jon and I have just celebrated our first WHOLE year of marriage, and this was our choice way to celebrate!

We chose the incredible campgrounds in Eleven Mile to pitch our tent, and couldn't have had a more beautiful weekend. If you ever are looking for a place in Colorado to camp/fish, this is THE place. It has 11 miles of lush forests surrounding the river that flows from Lake George, which caps off the campgrounds at the end of the road. 

Something I really look forward to when camping is cooking! There's something special about making breakfast in the crisp morning air, throwing together whatever you brought and sitting next to the fire while you wait for the sun to overcome your campsite. I always like to bring the best coffee when camping as a little treat, and we drank Switchback coffee out of Ipsento mugs!

For some reason, I have always wanted to witness someone painting a landscape in person. I couldn't believe we found this sweet old man capturing his perception of the beautiful scene while driving to pick up some supplies. It was a better experience than I could have expected, there was so much peace and serenity on his face. He had no other task at hand but to enjoy a few hours in nature, watching the shadows change, hearing the waters rushing over rocks,  and concentrating with his brush. It seems so hard to take these kinds of moments these days... I was so happy to see someone fighting for that peace.

After years of taking this hike with my family whenever we visit 11 Mile, I had to show Jon the life-changing view. There's nothing that proves God's existence better than a view like that! 

After reading and a blissful nap, dinner was served over the fire! I'm obsessed with Hobo Dinners, my favorite camping meal. It's so delicious and healthy! Check out this recipe for a good start to your own hobo dinner. I like to change up the meat we use, and this time it was a sweet Italian sausage from Trader Joe's.

One of the books I'm currently reading, The Light Between Oceans, was what I read on our trip. I haven't finished it yet, but I hope to do so soon to catch the film based on the book that's currently in theaters! I loved this quote : "I wish you could see the sunrise and sunset here. And the stars: the sky gets crowded at night, and it is a bit like watching a clock, seeing the constellations slide across the sky. It's comforting to know that they'll show up, however bad the day has been, however crook things get... It put things into perspective-the stars had been around since before there were people."

If you are married, I highly suggest my version of camping. What we found was that in the midst of our chaotic lives, we were blessed with unhurried TIME. It brought irreplaceable peace. We were so impacted by the stillness of time in those few days, the sweet and deep conversations and the joy we found in reflecting on our happy memories. We saw many shooting stars and made a few wishes for the years to come, dreaming of the love that we still have yet to discover together.